Saying "I Do . . . Still
A Renewing of Vows ceremony can be a meaningful, and touching, ceremony for you and your children, family and friends. It is a time as a married couple, to pause and reflect on where you have been and where you are going. It is also a wonderful example to set for your children and grandchildren. Can you imagine a more beautiful moment than children watching their parents joining hands and hearts as they affirm the magnitude and strength of their enduring love? What greater life/love lesson.
There are many reasons why couples choose to renew their wedding vows.
- It is a special anniversary, such as your 5th, 10th, 25th, 50th, etc.
- You and your spouse have been through difficult time and want a fresh start
- You want to make a public statement of your love and commitment to each other.
- You originally had a civil wedding at the courthouse and now you want to have a ceremony in a more beautiful setting
When renewing your vows we recommend:
- Keep your renewal of marriage vows casual and simple.
- If you write your own vows, don't draw attention to negativity in your past. Focus on your future together.
- Walk towards one another from sides of the room or area rather than having a procession down a center aisle.
- Have an exchange of your original wedding rings of purchase new ones
Your vow renewal will be special as long as you make it personal and reflective of the two of you. Whether simple or elaborate, shared with many friends and family or just the two of you, have fun and celebrate your marriage and strength of your love. Your marriage has survived in a world where many marriages do not. It’s your special day (again) – do it your way.
