Think of your vows as the Cake and all the rest of your ceremony as the icing. Since every couple is unique, it only makes sense that your wedding ceremony needs to be designed to show the love you share, in your own personal style and design. Your Wedding vows are no exception. Whether you plan to write your own vows or have your officiate provide them, careful thought and consideration should go into the process.
Your wedding vows are the heart and soul of your ceremony. It is a very romantic moment and often the perfect place to express your feelings towards your soon-to-be spouse. They are the promises that you make to one another and can set the tone for the rest of your ceremony. Wedding vows should be simple yet filled with personal touches from your relationship.
If you have children from another marriage you can include special promises to them to help them to feel a part of the new family they are now a part of. Your officiate can help you find the right words to express your love to these children.
There are many sites on the internet that can help you in writing your own vows and your officiate/minister can also be an invalubable source.